She texted me after 4months and I shouldn’t have rises the relationship topic

She texted me after 4months and I shouldn’t have rises the relationship topic

I have followed everything. I did the no contact period for two months. I had a new number. She saved my new number and used to share what’s app status. The moment I change what’s app dp she used to change her dp. Last Saturday she didn’t change the dp that way, I was confused shocked and called her rite away. I spoke shit and she was irritated. Next day I texted her and she was even more irritated. And the same irritation and me begging happened. What should I do now? Please help

You have to take a step back and not overreact at little things. Bear in mind that you haven’t gotten back together with her, and should not overlook that fact or start behaving in ways that overstep the boundaries of a friend. Apologize, and even consider applying no contact again for a short while to let her cool off.

She herself msged me on Feb 13th as if nothing happened. She started talking as if nothing happened. I know first day I was supposed to talk very low but that night I got emotional and said I wanted her back. She said she has changed a lot and she only wanted to find out how I was, an ex can never be a friend. What should I do? I waited for two days and gave her a small random chat which went well. Should I follow the chat guidelines given in this website? Or should I give her some more time? Continue reading “She texted me after 4months and I shouldn’t have rises the relationship topic”